Meowtown
Cat Clarity Call
Most of what you've tried is built to manage the situation. I work on something different — changing how your cats actually feel about each other.
Book a free 30 minutes with me. You tell me what's happening, and I'll tell you straight what I think and whether I'm the right person to help. Calendar's right below.
Teddy & Lucy
Ten weeks after we started.
These are my cats. A year ago they couldn't be in the same room. Now they just hang out together. No gates, nobody watching. Still kind of blows my mind.
What to Expect
Tell me about your cats. How long this has been going on, what set it off, what you've tried. Be honest. The messy details are the useful ones.
Not "every cat is different, hard to say." I'll tell you specifically what I think is behind the aggression, whether that's fear, redirected frustration, a bad first introduction, or something else. And I'll tell you whether what I do can actually fix it.
If we're a good fit, I'll walk you through what working together looks like. If we're not, I'll tell you that and point you to someone who can actually help. Either way, you hang up knowing exactly what your next move is.
Other People Who've Done This
Real people, real cats, different situations. The pattern underneath is the same.
"Before we started the program we felt like Cornelius and Winnie would always have to be separated. But we can now see the light at the end of the tunnel."
Christy & Travis Crabtree · Cornelius & Winnie
"After 3 years of introducing a new cat, we were still having aggression incidents. Joff's detailed explanations have been so helpful. It's still a process, but we are seeing positive changes."
Madelyn Rubin
Stephen is Stephen Quandt, certified feline behaviourist and my program co-creator.
Who You'll Be Talking To
I'm Joff. A few years ago my cats Teddy and Lucy were at war, and I spent months with them behind closed doors trying everything the internet told me to try. None of it stuck. Then I found something that actually worked: small, intentional positive moments between them — one at a time, like deposits into their relationship. That's what I call the bank account method, and it changed everything.
Now I help other people do the same thing. The program I run, From Fighting to Friendship, is built on a course I co-created with Stephen, a certified animal behaviourist with 24 years experience. He knows feline behaviour science cold. I know what it's like to be up at midnight wondering if the cats will ever stop fighting — and how to actually get past it.