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From Fighting to Friendship
This is for cat parents whose cats don't get along. It's how we take them from fighting to peacefully co-existing — in the next 90 days.
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Is this you?
You're probably in one of these three situations
You just brought a new cat home, but it's not going to plan
You wanted a friend for your resident cat, or simply to give another cat a loving home. You imagined them playing, curling up, becoming besties — but instead you got hissing, chasing, and sudden attacks that have left you wondering whether this was all one big mistake.
Your cats used to be fine, but then things unravelled
A vet visit, a loud noise, something scary outside — whatever it was, something happened that suddenly flipped a switch. Now two cats that used to live together happily treat each other like mortal enemies.
You've been managing cat conflict for months. Maybe years
You've gone way past the initial panic of your home turning into a war zone, and have reached the exhaustion phase. Your cats live on a rotating schedule, fully separated, and you maybe even find yourself sleeping on the sofa so that none of your cats has to sleep alone. You've thought about rehoming, but just can't bear the thought of giving up on them.
Wherever you are in this journey, I get it. I've been all three of those myself.
Luckily, there's a way out.
What we'll work on together
We work together over 90 days on three things
Diagnose the exact reason why your cats are fighting
Cats don't get along for all kinds of reasons — territorial, fear, resource-based, energy, redirected, non-recognition — and often it's a combination. Each one needs a different solution. So first, we find the real cause of the tension, so we can work on the things that actually move the needle.
Rebuild their relationship from the ground up
If your cats are hissing, growling, and fighting — or just tense around each other — their relationship is damaged. They're stressed, and they've lost the trust and safety they need to peacefully co-exist. Using my Bank Account Method, I'll walk you through rebuilding it step by step, until the cats are excited to see each other.
Implement behavioural solutions that keep the peace
Depending on what's driving the stress, we work with the cats' environment and instincts in a way that diffuses tension long-term — so you avoid future flare-ups down the road.
The program includes:
- A self-paced course — the full method, explained step by step.
- Bi-weekly 1:1 calls — so we tailor the approach to your specific situation.
- Unlimited text support — ask me anything along the way, and send videos of your sessions so I can tell you exactly what to change.
My Promise
Integrated in 3 months — or I work with you until they are.
While most clients reach integration in 1–3 months, some cats need more time. If that turns out to be you, don't worry — I'll keep working with you and supporting you until your cats can be left alone together on the sofa while you're out getting groceries.
Who this is for
To qualify for this program, you must be…
- → Willing to dedicate at least 15–30 minutes a day, as far as it's possible, to run sessions with your cats.
- → Willing to make changes to your routines and/or home setup if needed, to improve your cats' lives. We always aim to change as little as absolutely necessary — but sometimes changes are needed.
The investment
The investment for this offer is currently €297. For context, that's less than a single session with a vet behaviourist (€300–€900, often with no clear plan at the end), or a behaviour consultant (where you get a written report with very little follow-up).
Here you get the full method, 100% guidance through the entire journey, and a guaranteed promise from me that we'll get you to the finish line. Full stop.
P.S. The reason it's at this price right now is that I'm still building up my case-study bank (more client wins = a stronger business long-term). The investment will go up soon.
Ready for peace in your home?
Send me a DM on Instagram and let me know you're interested. I'll answer anything you're unsure about, and we'll see if it's a good fit.
Message me on Instagram →I only have the capacity to work with 8 cat parents at a time, so I can give each one my full attention. Right now, there is just 1 spot open, then I close the doors until one frees up.
What other cat parents say
"I can't believe I'm seeing this!! Finally Lily understands boundaries — no more taking food by attacking others, she can patiently wait her turn for treats, and she's learned to take turns during play. My resident cats are doing better with her, and Lily lets them groom her now 🥰 Couldn't be happier!"
catmom_de_trois · 9 months after adopting Lily
"After 3 years of introducing a new cat, we were still having aggression incidents. Joff's detailed explanations have been so helpful. We found that the source was not territorial as we expected. It's still a process, but we are seeing positive changes."
Madelyn Rubin
"Before we started the program we felt like Cornelius and Winnie would always have to be separated… But we can now see the light at the end of the tunnel."
Christy & Travis Crabtree · Cornelius & Winnie
Samantha · via Instagram DM